POLICE ASSOCIATION OF NOVA SCOTIA 91 Case Studies The following case is not a true story, but is based on situations that people often hear about when they are working with senior abuse cases. Jane (72 years old) is a widow who is still very active in her community. She often takes part in social dinners and cards with the local seniors’ group. Since her husband died, Billy (69 years old) has given her a lot of attention. He often asks her to travel to the events with him and sit with him. Jane misses the companionship of a man and would like to start dating again, but feels Billy is coming on too strong. At the last dinner dance, Billy grabbed Jane’s bottom and made a lewd comment. Jane was shocked and told him to leave her alone. Sandy (76 years old), Jane’s friend, was standing right beside her when Billy grabbed her bottom. Sandy told Jane she was overreacting and that Billy didn’t mean any harm. He was just having a good time. Jane left the event. She now feels embarrassed and doesn’t want to attend any more events if Sandy or Billy will be there. 1. SEE it! Do you see possible signs of abuse? If so, what are the signs? What might be happening? Financial abuse Emotional abuse Violation of right Sexual abuse Neglect Physical abuse Would you hesitate to name it? If so, why? What would help you overcome your hesitation? 2. CHECK it! How could you check this situation?What might you ask?Who might you ask?What other help is available? Before you act, ask yourself: What are the safety issues? Am I being respectful?
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