POLICE ASSOCIATION OF NOVA SCOTIA 99 Case Studies The following case is not a true story, but is based on situations that people often hear about when they are working with senior abuse cases. Margaret (68 years old) is a very active member of her community and participates in many groups and clubs. She has lots of friends and close neighbours. Her husband, Bob (68 years old), has been retired for three years, and was a well respected member of the business community throughout his career. Since his retirement, Bob has had difficulty finding things to keep him busy. He can often be found at the Legion or golf club having a few drinks with friends. He regularly comes home drunk, starts a fight and hits Margaret for no reason. He always apologizes the next day and tells her that he loves her. He says if it weren’t for her mistakes, he wouldn’t have hit her. Margaret has not disclosed this to anyone close to her. But last week at cards, her bridge partner, Pat, noticed a bruise on her wrist and asked Margaret what happened. Margaret said she was clumsy and banged her arm on the door. Pat is not sure she believes Margaret, but doesn’t want to push for more information. 1. SEE it! Do you see possible signs of abuse? If so, what are the signs? What might be happening? Financial abuse Emotional abuse Violation of right Sexual abuse Neglect Physical abuse Would you hesitate to name it? If so, why? What would help you overcome your hesitation? 2. CHECK it! How could you check this situation?What might you ask?Who might you ask?What other help is available? Before you act, ask yourself: What are the safety issues? Am I being respectful?
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